I need to stop jumping in when I see that it is up to someone to take an action about something and they have a problem to start to do it. In the past I would even help someone apologize me. This is insane. Now I have started to just ignore it in such situation. And I can feel the pain of the other person, or the hesitation, and even the wish that I make it easier - like I always have - but I just do nothing. And even though it feels uncomfortable.. in some way it also feels amazing. Suddenly I feel so much lighter. So much less responsible for the crap of other people. It is the space.
Good lesson, good lesson.
Because, what I've not understood till now, some people actually do function like this. They do not proceed like I do: make a decision and then act on it, they rather act or not act and take it as their decision.