Showing all posts tagged #pattern:


Love handling schemas

Posted on December 18th, 2018

I think I discovered something important. There are at least three schemas, aka thinking patterns, that I fall into when I like someone. The thoughts that belong to each of them are so repetitive, so predictable, that I am surprised that I have noticed...

Changes, changes

Posted on April 17th, 2017

I saw a woman in a billboard advertising underwear. Something new: instead of hearing the subconscious message "she's a whore", "she's pathetic", "she's a stupid cunt", I just thought "she looks happy". Wow. Completely different situation than usual. S...

The narcissist in me

Posted on April 16th, 2017

When I read the diagnostic criteria of narcissism I do not see it so clearly, but when I watch the videos about narcissism I find many of the mentioned characteristics in myself. I'm not even sure if they strictly belong to narcissism or maybe just to ...

Why does this always happen to me

Posted on February 21st, 2017

Why does the same shit happen to me over and over again?! I started to honestly ask this myself a few years ago. I kind of regret that I have not met a person as wise as me now, who would have given me the answer and explanation that I now think that h...