Showing all posts tagged #relationship:
I don't have to trust men
Posted on May 4th, 2017
I have recently heard that in a self recovery process it is very important to take small steps, such steps that are not too big for the child within that is scared and having great difficulty trusting, as it may get scared. Being too ambitious can lead...
Codependent love - video
Posted on April 19th, 2017
A brilliant video from Lisa A. Romano about the constant emotional swing of the codependent relationship: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ihwioTSGLC.
It's so good to know that what I have always experienced as the norm in relationships is actually a p...
Integrate not alienate
Posted on April 17th, 2017
It is a known phenomenon that borderlines often end up in relationships with narcissists. Yes that's what I read after my breakup and it was not helpful at all: to know that my suffering was to be predicted. That I'm just a part of the statistic. Some ...
Love at first sight
Posted on March 29th, 2017
Instant attraction towards a newly met person. It does not have to feel like love from the beginning. But soon you find yourself thinking about this person too much, almost obsessing about them, craving their company, I guess you just fell in love? No ...
Freaking out in relationships
Posted on March 17th, 2017
That is one problem that has been bothering me a lot - when I get into a relationship I very soon start getting paranoid that this person does not care or that they will leave me and then I start freaking out - which is making the relationship impossib...
